Today, we're excited to bring the third of the four Elements of Desire: Lust. According to sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart, creator of the Elements of Desire: At times, we may move into our heads during sex, away from our bodies. In these moments, in order to continue, we depend on fantasies, outside validation, programmed images of sexiness, objectification, and goal oriented sex. Male sexuality is often reduced and over simplified as a biological imperative to spread seed or to "get off." This explanation does not acknowledge the relational components that are, the foundation, the underlying motivators for sex. The very nature of gay sex is antithetical to the biological model alone, because it is rooted in identity, a social construct. At the same time, as men, we often lack a vocabulary to describe our experiences of ourselves emotionally, sexually, and otherwise. Featuring Chris Harder, Will Tantra. From the web series: Elements of Desire. Original release date: February 24th, 2020.
Often people are curious about Tantric Sex. This video gives a glimpse into practices that you can try with a partner, packaged in a way that's practical and applicable. If you think tantric sex is about incense, kale and candles -- think again. In today's video, we'll learn how to have a real, practical tantric sex date. No candles required. In general terms, tantric sex combines your sexual energy, heart energy and spiritual energy -- and often results in heightened experiences of bliss. Sometimes even enlightenment. But all of that can sound abstract -- so let's start simple by building your sexual energy. Arouse each other and get closer and closer to cumming. Then, stop! You'll feel lots of sexual energy in your cock, begging to be released through ejaculation. Instead, squeeze the muscle you use when going to the toilet to pump the energy into your body. Your sexual energy will move from your cock to your body. Next, let's add some love into the equation. Start by gazing into each others' eyes. Even if you don't love your partner, find something in his eyes that you do. Let that love guide your connection, and melt that loving energy into your sexual energy. See how it feels different. Featuring Chris Harder, Windom Gold. Original release date: November 30th, 2020.
There is tremendous freedom in letting go. However, this video is in contrast to the typical view of bondage. In this video, the bottom lets himself go while being completely cared for, rather than experiencing deprivation or even pain. The tops are loving, nourishing, arousing and committed to making the experience fun for everyone. Featuring Adam Ramzi, Alex Mecum, Max Adonis. Original release date: November 18th, 2019.
Before the eyes of God and men, Alex invokes his deepest desires. Featuring Alex Faux, Clark Lewis, Gabriel Cross, JP Dubois. Original release date: December 30th, 2019.
